Couples Who Work Out Together Stay Together

What do you think about the above statement? Does it have merit? I absolutely believe it does. I first met Ray almost 10 ½ years ago on a date to the gym. I remember it fondly. A mutual friend knew the two of us had bodybuilding in common and she suggested we should meet because of our common interest. Here we are all those years later, still with fitness as a common thread and giving it a priority in each other’s lives. We both understand how important it is to the other so it’s naturally easy to support and encourage one another in this area.

How is it for others? We’re all so busy these days. Making time to connect with your partner can be challenging at best. Why not come together in the gym and share the benefits of working out together. Psychology Today(1) reports that working together can:

Increase happiness in your relationship. Participating in physical challenges or activities leaves couples feeling more satisfied with their relationship and more in love with their partner.

Improve the efficiency of your workout. The mere presence of someone else affects your ability to do an activity. Working out with your romantic partner is a great way to improve your energy output, thereby boosting your performance.

Make your partner fall in love with you. Exercise induces the symptoms of physiological arousal which mirror the thrill of romantic attraction.

 Help you achieve your fitness goals. When your partner cares about fitness, it becomes easier to achieve fitness goals.

The Huffington Post reports(2) that the concept of couples working out together works. Dr. Jane Greer, a relationship psychotherapist says “both partners come away with feeling of synchronicity, cooperative spirit and shared passion. Then you throw in some spicy endorphins and it can be a real power trip for the relationship.” There is a positive physical and emotional impact for couples who work out together. Exercise increases endorphins which elicit a feeling of euphoria. More on endorphins in a future post, but let’s just say, these “feel-good” chemicals are an added benefit from exercise, especially for romantic couples.

In a nutshell, having a workout partner, whether your spouse, best friend or a family member, holds you accountable to get to the gym for your workout because the other part of the couple is counting on you to be there. At The FirmU, we have several couples who train together who report that their relationships have improved and they have a closer connection with one another. We also have duos and trios of friends who come in for personal training. A benefit of training together, additional to the accountability piece and closer connections, is the reduced per person pricing structure. Duo and trio training is priced at the first person regular price and 2nd and 3rd at half price. This is a great way to enjoy the personal training we offer at reduced rates. We’d love to be a part of your fitness journey and improving your relationships through exercise.

(1) https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201401/5-reasons-why-couples-who-sweat-together-stay-together
(2) https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/09/workout-partner-healthy-couples-valentines-day_n_2638571.html